Reader Question:
Hi David,
I am 60 years of age, really healthier, really energetic, and an extremely nice girl. I had a really cool marriage for over 30 years. We signed up with Match.com as soon as We separated, had a couple of times (they were horrible), then one popped up. I’ve dated him on / off for two years. He informed me he likes me personally, but he vanishes all the time. I see him for a couple of times, immediately after which he is gone for just two to three weeks. He was hitched for 30 years and has three kids (like myself) and says he’s got dedication dilemmas and is witnessing a therapist regarding it. Their spouse cheated on him and he features drug and alcohol problems.
Must I think of this man as toxic? If he contacts me again (that I suspect he’ll), should I tell him never to get in touch with myself any longer, or must I only acknowledge i love becoming with him but are making my personal solutions available to time others?
-Nancy (California)
David Wygant’s Answer:
Should you think about this person toxic? No.
I would personally think about him become a booty telephone call.
That’s all he could be. He’s a booty call.
He doesn’t want to dedicate. He is discovering a lot of excuses, and yet he likes to arrive over and fool about.
Whenever one does that, all he is doing is using you as an intimate partner.
Confront him onto it if you like, but a guy like him makes upwards some sort of tale never to be stop intimately.
Thus move on and get a hold of someone who is deserving of you.
The time you have been wasting considering him being with him is time you’ll be meeting a unique guy.
Take pleasure in the process!
David
